DECLUTTER & RECLAIM
Between work demands as a midlife architect, family responsibilities, and just the daily grind, it's easy to feel like you're barely keeping your head above water. I've been thinking a lot about those moments when everything seems to pile up, leaving us overwhelmed and exhausted. And it got me pondering…..
There is something satisfying or dare I say MAGICAL
about organizing chaotic drawers and closets. I know what you're thinking—organizing a messy cabinet drawer or tackling that overstuffed closet might not seem like a big deal in the grand scheme of things. But bear with me, because there's more to it than meets the eye.
Imagine this scenario: You're juggling the demands of work, family, and personal life. The mounting stress leaves you feeling overwhelmed and depleted. Amidst the chaos, There’s this magic drawer or closet that becomes your sanctuary—a secret place to stash away the remnants of your day, the grocery receipts, the forgotten business cards, and the post-it notes that have lost their context. It's a small refuge, a momentary escape from the chaos .
But even as you neatly close that drawer or push the closet door shut, no matter how organized the rest of your house might be, there's an internal disarray and the feeling of spaciousness remains elusive.
It's the shame you feel when you're confronted with the things you've been avoiding. That messy drawer becomes a mirror reflecting back at you, and who wants to face that head-on? So, you shut it quickly, hoping to escape the discomfort.
The Magic really happens
But what if you took a different approach? What if you set aside one evening to tackle that drawer headfirst?
Imagine emptying it completely—laying out all those forgotten items in front of you. It's a bit like unearthing treasures from the past. Sure, there might be some things that make you wonder why you kept them, but there could also be surprises that bring a smile to your face. The process of decluttering isn't just about organizing stuff; it's about reclaiming a part of your space, your sanity and yourself.
And here's where the magic really happens. This seemingly small act of decluttering isn't just about your physical space; it's a metaphor for decluttering your mind. Ever had a million thoughts racing around, making you feel even more overwhelmed? I know I have. That's why putting pen to paper is a game-changer.
Pen to Paper
Try this: grab a piece of paper and jot down everything that's swirling in your head. It's like transferring the chaos onto paper, giving your mind a chance to breathe. Trust me, I used to rely on my memory for my to-do list, and it was a recipe for disaster. But once I started writing things down, it was like a weight lifted off my shoulders. Suddenly, I could think clearly and prioritize what truly mattered. I talk about this in my free guide “3 Steps to Create More Time for Yourself”. So, if you haven’t downloaded yours, click the button below and claim your today!
So, my friend, here's the bottom line:
Those cluttered spaces in our homes? They're a reflection of the clutter you're carrying within you. And taking the time to declutter physically and mentally can lead to a surprising sense of peace and clarity.
Next time you find yourself staring at that drawer or hesitating before opening that closet, remember that what you're feeling is completely normal. We all have our clutter, both inside and out. But by taking that step to tackle it, you're giving yourself the gift of space, both in your surroundings and in your mind.
